Dear Friends,
Nothing clears up a bad day for me faster than a good grounding and centering    exercise. If you’ve ever felt out of sorts or disconnected to the world    around you, you might want to try making grounding and centering a part of your    daily life. A lot of folks think that the technique is simply for starting a    ritual, but it can be used at anytime that you need to “clear” yourself    from the stresses of your day. 
I’ve found that a lot of people underestimate the power of grounding    and centering. It is one of the first things that I teach newcomers to the path,    and some dismiss it as a baby step into practicing magick. I’ve made the    same mistake myself in the past, however, I quickly learned different. To me,    grounding and centering (along with a few other energy techniques) are the cornerstone    to working with energy effectively. A lot of people think of it as boring and    simplistic and they just want to get on to the “fun stuff.” However,    what they fail to see is that until grounding and centering is mastered, none    of the “fun stuff” will be any “fun.”
So let’s take another look at grounding and centering through this perspective.    Let’s look at the techniques as essentials rather than simplicities. The    most basic energy work technique is centering. To relate to what centering means    in energy work, thing about the expression “center of balance.”    It describes a point at which the weight of something is equally distributed.    There is a definite center of balance in your body, and its in a different location    for everyone. It depends on how you are made. There is also an energetic, yet    invisible, center of balance to your body. It may be located near your physical    center.
It’s a bit difficult to describe exactly what your energetic center should    feel like. When you are off our physical bodies center of balance, you know    immediately. But the energetic center of balance works differently. When you    are “off balance” energetically, you feel frazzled and stressed.    To re-center yourself, you need to sink down into your energy center and become    aware of how the energy in your body flows. When I practice centering, I always    feel a weight lifted from my shoulders. I feel like I am settling down into    myself and becoming comfortable. 
Centering is the first technique that you must master because it helps you    learn to focus your own personal energy and still yourself. If you aren’t    focused later in your spell work, you spells won’t have the power they    need. Centering is, fortunately, very easy to practice and should become part    of your everyday life. It only takes a few minutes and can be done anywhere…I    practice centering in the shower. Once you’ve mastered this technique    you can reach this state whenever you need to.
After developing the ability to center quickly and effortlessly, you should    begin to perfect the technique of grounding. The process starts by sitting down    on the ground and letting the energy drain out of the bottom of your spine.    To help you ground yourself, visualize roots sprouting from you deep into the    ground to carry away the excess energy. Just like electrical systems use ground    wire to dump excess energy, you need a technique to get rid of the excess energy    that has built up inside your system.
Grounding has two major purposes. It allows you to rid yourself of any excess    energy (stresses!) before you take part in a ritual, or even go on with the    rest of your day. It also allows any excess energy that was raised during spell    work to re-enter the earth. Grounding on a daily basis can help you clear yourself    of anything that you are energetically carrying with you. This can include stress,    frustration, depression and angry feelings. 
As you practice, grounding and centering will become a part of your life. They    are tools that you can use anytime to manage your personal energy. As you begin    to develop mastery over these tools, your magickal energy will become stronger    and more precise. And the techniques can really save on stress-related eating!!
Until next time, try to center instead of reaching for the chocolate, 
Rose Ariadne
Your Warm And Caring "Resident Witch In Charge" 
					 
					
Rose,
I just read your blog on centering and grounding and you are absolutely right. I work as a server part time and I also have my own business so life can be very stressful. I have found that when I have a bad day that going out to my back yard sit on the ground and just meditate by listening to the birds, the wind and all that is nature. It is so powerful. You are very right, everyone should try it. Can’t wait till your next one. By the way I am enjoying your mastering witchcraft. Until next time.
Brightess Blessings,
Hope
hey um im new to wiccan and i dont realy under stand grounding
hello i am samantha and i am very interested in becoming a wiccan and i would like to know if centering is like calming yourself…i do not really understand how to find my center but i would love to learn…will you help me…